Psalm 23
1 The Lord is my shepherd, I lack nothing.
2 He makes me lie down in green pastures,
he leads me beside quiet waters,
3 he refreshes my soul.
He guides me along the right paths
for his name’s sake.
4 Even though I walk
through the darkest valley,
I will fear no evil,
for you are with me;
your rod and your staff,
they comfort me.
5 You prepare a table before me
in the presence of my enemies.
You anoint my head with oil;
my cup overflows.
6 Surely your goodness and love will follow me
all the days of my life,
and I will dwell in the house of the Lord
forever.
Good morning! Today we will be talking about verse 2: He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters
The first time I read that verse I immediately thought of our bedtime routine. I spend most of my time in the realm of motherhood, so that tends to be the lens through which I often view life.
How many of you have had the privilege, and I use that word loosely, of putting children to bed? Whether they’re yours or someone else's? And how many of you had a very different idea of what that process would look like before you actually became parents?
Before we had children, I thought bedtime would be this magical experience. We’d give them a bath every night and swaddle them up in their lavender-scented goodness, read them stories by the fireplace, and rock them to sleep. Then we’d lay them down and gaze upon their angelic faces, praying over them as they breathed easy in sweet sleep. And maybe when they got older, we’d snuggle with them in bed and talk about their thoughts and fears, their hopes and dreams.
But that was back before I had an ounce of experience with the sanctifying journey of parenting. I didn’t realize how much work a little baby or two {or five} would require and how utterly exhausted you would be at the end of the day. That the time spent nursing an infant alone was the equivalent of a full-time job or that you’d be so tired you literally wouldn't be able to see straight. How sometimes all you could do was count down the minutes until bedtime, your only major accomplishment for the day being simply, “we all survived.”
And while things have changed over the years as our kids have grown up, I wouldn’t say that bedtime has gotten any easier. It may come as a surprise to some of you, but believe it or not, most of the time my kids don’t actually want to lie down and go to sleep. Because, what fun is that? As a parent, however, it’s my job to make them, whether they want to or not. Now, I don’t know what bedtime is like at your house, and maybe some of you are sweet families and your bedtime routine is all love and cuddles, but we tend to be more of a spicy family, and ours is...not.
Think less kumbaya and more chaos, like Chuck-E-Cheese. Think lots of noise and yelling, loud music, lights on, running and wrestling, which might be fun if it wasn’t bedtime. Either Ben or I (or both) will follow them all upstairs and begin the process of putting them to bed. But getting them into the actual bed is only half the battle--we then need to keep them there, which, speaking of Chuck-E-Cheese, is a lot like a game of Whack-A-Mole.
Just imagine with me for a moment: all the little moles are lying quietly in their holes. But then you put the quarter in and you pick up your whapper, because you know the game is on now and any second one of them will be popping out of their bed for something. The little one usually pops up first, telling me she’s afraid sharks are going to get her in her sleep again, and we have this whole thing we talk through: sharks only live in the ocean, and is there an ocean here in your room? No... Sharks can only live in water, so even if one somehow managed to end up on your bedroom floor, they would die. And don’t worry, the ocean is 10 hours away and all the sharks at the zoo are stuck in a tank and can’t hurt anyone. Whap.
But it isn’t ever just sharks. The kids get scared if every single light in the hallway and bathroom aren’t on and if they happen to see a strange shadow on their wall. They get anxious about tests they need to take in the morning and worry that I’m going to forget to sign the paper they need to turn in.
The next mole is the little boy tattling on his brother because he’s pulling his blanket down from the top bunk and calling him names and won’t let him go to sleep. Then he’s stealing his stuffed animals and taunting him with them, refusing to give them back. Whap! Oh, and by the way, he’s still hungry and is telling me now that his teeth are brushed and he’s already tucked in bed, and his sister needs to go back downstairs to get her water bottle because she’s thirsty. Whap and whap.
Then sometimes there’s the issue of spiders crawling on the ceiling, flies and mosquitos buzzing about in the summer, or the dog jumping all over them or chewing up their stuff, so they can’t fall asleep.
For them to actually be able to lie down in bed and fall asleep at a decent hour, it usually requires Ben to stay up there for a while. They seem more content when they can see him, when they’re aware of his presence. Otherwise they’ll be up there making a ruckus and giving each other a hard time for hours. But when Ben is there, they not only lie down, but they eventually fall asleep.
Charlie talked a little bit about the nature of sheep last week, how they’re anxious, fearful, skittish, relatively stupid, and followers. I don’t know about you, but personally, I don’t have a lot of experience with sheep. I grew up in probably what you'd call the country compared to Cleveland, and we did have ducks, cats, dogs, and horses at one point. But no sheep. My guess is most of you don’t have much experience with sheep, either.
As I was preparing for today, I read the book, A Shepherd Looks at Psalm 23. The author, Phillip Keller, was a shepherd for a time, and I appreciated his insight and experiences. He’s going to help us learn a little bit about the nature of sheep and the role of the Shepherd today.
Keller says that because of their very make-up, it’s almost impossible for sheep to be made to lie down unless four requirements are met:
Sheep will refuse to lie down unless they are free of all fear. “Mommy, the shark is going to eat me.”
Sheep will refuse to lie down unless they are free from friction with others of their kind. “Mommy, he’s messing with me.”
Sheep will refuse to lie down unless they are free of pests so they can relax. “Mommy, I hear a fly buzzing.”
Sheep will refuse to lie down unless they are free from hunger. “Mommy, I need a snack.”
Well, as it turns out, children, and people in general, are more like sheep than we may have thought. In order for the sheep to be at rest, there must be a definite sense of freedom from fear, tension, aggravations, and hunger. Also, it is ONLY the Shepherd himself who can provide release from these anxieties.
As we talk about each of these aspects, you’ll begin to understand why the role the Shepherd plays in their management is so important. It is the Shepherd who makes it possible for the sheep to lie down, to rest, relax, be content, and flourish.
Sheep will refuse to lie down unless they are free of all fear.
I didn’t know this, but apparently sheep are so timid and easily panicked that even a stray rabbit bounding from a bush can stampede the whole flock. When one startled sheep runs in fright, a dozen others will bolt with it in blind fear, not waiting to see what frightened them. Now, if that doesn’t sound like our modern American culture, I don’t know what does. It seems like every day, there’s a new “threat,” perceived or real, which has the public clamoring in fear or rising up against the latest trending offense.
It’s the “unknown” and “unexpected” that produce the greatest panic, and our first impulse is to get up and run or otherwise attempt to insulate ourselves from harm. And we seem to be afraid of a lot of things, much like my kids are as we tuck them in at night. Keller mentions that there was a noticeable difference in the temperament of his sheep when he nearby. When the sheep could see him, when he was out in the field standing among them, a calmness and contentment would come over the flock. They knew their Shepherd was present, that He would watch over them and protect them from all harm, whether it was a predator looking to eat them or a rabbit in the bush.
Just like mom or dad being in the next room quiets any lingering fears of a shark attack, there is nothing like Christ’s presence to dispel fear. Even when life seems chaotic, things are falling apart, you’re completely overwhelmed, or nothing is going how you thought it would, God has things under control. The Holy Spirit reminds us that Christ Himself is aware of our dilemma and is deeply involved right there with us.
Sheep will refuse to lie down unless they are free from friction with others of their kind.
Tension, rivalry, cruel competition naturally exist in a flock of sheep as much as they do in our homes and culture at large. But when we are busy clamoring for status and self-assertion, we are creating a friction that makes it impossible to lie down and rest in contentment because we always have to be at the ready to fight and defend ourselves. In any human organization or group, there is a struggle for status, a fight to be “top sheep,” if you will, and social media is no exception.
Like Charlie said last week, sheep are followers, and the online verbiage is an excellent reflection of that. We literally “follow” people on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram. We follow blogs, we follow the lives of celebrities. We follow the latest hipster eating trend and exercise fad. We clamor for likes and shares and digital groupies who virtually follow us wherever we go. We get jealous when Sally’s posts are getting a lot of attention and ours, not so much. We long to be like Julie who has ten thousand followers.
You guys, we don’t even need to be in the same room with each other any more to experience friction, competition, and jealousy. But when you are in the same room, it happens there, too. My kids boss each other around, call names, and irritate each other when they’re supposed to be resting, and we all do the same thing in our homes, workplaces, and even at church. Keller made an interesting observation about his flock: the less aggressive sheep were far more contented, quiet and restful. Those “bottom sheep” know that they belong to the Shepherd, and that’s enough.
With all the mommy wars and parent shaming and opinions about the right way to raise children {or anything else} these days, we could really use some more bottom sheep, couldn’t we? And the presence of the Shepherd does just that: it puts an end to the rivalry. When our eyes are on the Shepherd they are not on those around us, and that my friends, is the place of peace and rest. To be close to God is to be set free from fear of people and what they may think of us. The shepherd’s presence makes all the difference.
Sheep will refuse to lie down unless they are free of pests so they can relax.
Sheep can be driven to absolute distraction by flies and ticks, especially in the summer. When they’re being tormented by pests, it’s impossible for them to relax and lie down. There are many small irritations and annoyances that “bug” us humans in life, but one thing that comes to mind is cell phones.
I read an article recently titled Why We Can’t Look Away From Our Screens, and it stated that while substance addictions are nothing new, there a phenomenon of behavioral addictions. People are spending nearly three hours a day tethered to their cell phones, teens spend weeks alone in their rooms playing video games, and Snapchat users open their app more than 18x a day. A 2011 study suggested that 41% of people have a behavioral addiction, and that number is surely higher today with newer and more addictive social networking platforms.
Our phones are constantly in our hands, clipped to our sides, in our pockets or purses, and one survey said 60% of us keep them next to us as we sleep. I’m guilty of that because my phone is my alarm clock. In another survey, half the respondents claimed they check their emails during the night. These devices are constantly dinging, beeping, alerting, reminding, and generally pestering us all day, and sometimes even all night, long.
We’re a society that’s constantly plugged in, blankly staring at the screen in our palm instead of engaging with the people and life happening around us. But we are almost constantly engaging in the virtual lives of others. And not engaging in a way that fosters mutual respect and understanding, the sharing of stories and experiences complete with empathetic social cues and a compassionate hand on the shoulder--that would require an interaction with a human, not a screen. What we’re doing online is sharing data and information, which ultimately leads to comparison.
Because for the most part, we share the good stuff online, right? And so now, not only is the phone itself pestering you throughout the day, but the unrealistic expectations you’ve gleaned from it and placed upon yourself are now, too. Spend any amount of time on Pinterest and you’ll quickly realize that the birthday parties you throw for your children are pathetic, your kitchen looks like it crawled out of the 80’s and needs completely redone, your wardrobe is in desperate need of a facelift, and apparently, so are you.
So how are we to rest with all these distractions and expectations incessantly buzzing around us? That’s again where the Shepherd comes in. He’s willing to do the work to free us from the pests that plague us, the question is, are we willing to let Him? Are we willing to be present enough to see Him among us, to notice Him working on our behalf?
It’s the humble heart walking quietly and contentedly in the close and intimate companionship of Christ that is at rest, that can relax, simply glad to lie down and let the world go by. We need time spent with Him in the Word and in prayer and quiet moments of contemplation when the space between our head and our heart isn’t buffered by a screen, where the Shepherd can intercede with His healing presence and tend to our souls. He can right our perspective and help us see the nagging pull of the world for what it is, allowing us to lie down in green pastures.
Are you seeing the pattern here? The presence of the Shepherd makes all the difference.
Sheep will refuse to lie down unless they are free from hunger.
Sheep tend to flourish best in areas of the world that are dry, but green pastures do not naturally thrive there. Green pastures do not happen by chance but rather by the diligent labor, time, and skill of the Shepherd. If His sheep are to enjoy green pastures amid a brown wasteland, then He has a tremendous job to do.
And I thought, that’s just like God, isn’t it? Because if I were in charge, I would be like, why don’t we just tweak those sheep a little bit before we create them and help them thrive in, say, the lush green rainforest instead? Wouldn’t that be easier? Why make things so backward and difficult? But God is in the business of making something out of nothing. That’s what He does.
Unfortunately, we can be a short-sighted and stupid people who often prefer to feed on the barren ground of the world around us. A hungry, ill-fed sheep is ever on its feet and on the move, ever in search of another scanty mouthful of food to satisfy its gnawing hunger. Such sheep are not content, do not thrive, and are of no use to themselves or their master. Friends, that’s not the life that God wants for us, because there’s no freedom there.
Because of what Christ did for us on the cross and His unrelenting effort on our behalf, we have access to the green pastures of victory and freedom. He takes a good-for-nothing wasteland and turns it into lush green space that sustains and nourishes His sheep. He takes ordinary, dry, withered, malnourished people, and with careful, intentional labor on their behalf, clears away all the dead brush, plants seeds of hope and breathes into them new life. Again, the presence of the Shepherd makes all the difference.
He leads me beside quiet waters.
Sheep and humans are made up of mostly water, and water is necessary to maintain normal bodily functions. The daily intake of water is essential to health and overall well-being. It’s important to note that, again, it’s only the Shepherd who knows where the best drinking places can be found.
When sheep are thirsty, they will seek out a water source. If not led to water supplies of clean, pure water, they will often end up drinking from polluted pot holes where they acquire diseases. In the same way, our thirsty souls can only be fully satisfied when drawing upon Christ.
The problem is, although we’re all created with a “thirst” for God, we don’t really know where to look or really what we’re looking for, and so we drink from any dirty pool in an attempt to satisfy our thirst for fulfillment. Enter the world and all it’s futile pursuits, which promise life and happiness on the front end but leave you with nothing but broken lives, shattered hopes, and parched souls.
Phillip Keller writes, Amid all the chaos of a confused, sick society, Christ comes quietly and invites us to come to him. He invites us to follow Him, to put our confidence in Him, for only He knows how we can be satisfied. He knows the human heart, the human personality, the human soul with its amazing capacity for God can never be satisfied with a substitute. Only the Spirit and life of Christ Himself will satisfy the thirsting soul.
At this point, you probably have a pretty good idea of the differences between the sheep and the Shepherd. The Shepherd walks upright on two legs and is responsible for the wellbeing and survival of His entire flock. The degree to which they thrive and are satisfied rests entirely on Him. The sheep walk around on all fours, nibble grass, and are anxious, skittish, and generally unintelligent. Left to their own devices, they would quarrel amongst themselves, wander off, feast on dead brush, drink out of dirty puddles, and be eaten by whatever predator came along.
With that in mind, it’s preposterous to think, even for a second, that a sheep could ever be the Shepherd. I mean, how ridiculous is that? And yet, how many of us try to be the Shepherd of our own lives? Of the handful of important lessons I’ve learned in my life, probably the most important one is there a God, and I am not He. The second one is, man, I really need Him. Every day.
But we’re human, and though our need for a Shepherd is easy to forget, just remember God knows the nature of His sheep. He knows exactly what we need, even if life doesn’t make sense to us at the time. He’s gone before us and cleared a way. He’s prepared lush fields of freedom for us, but He doesn’t make us lie down in the way I originally thought.
He’s not the exhausted parent knee-deep in tantrums and disobedience who just wants the children to finally lay down and go to sleep, for the love. He’s not the dictator parent who makes you lie down and sleep or else, but He’s the Shepherd who, through hard, loving work, creates the conditions in which we are not only able to lie down and rest but joyfully willing to do so. Everything He does is for the good of His sheep.
He leads us by clean, pure water for a much needed drink for our parched, world-weathered souls. The presence of the Shepherd makes all the difference, and regardless of the dirty pools you may have stopped at along the way, it’s never too late to get up and follow Him.
